We Just Saw Each Other and We Knew....

So I go to BYU-Idaho and all around you hear girls "Oh my gosh, well we meet last week and we just know! We are getting married on our 3 months anniversary!" Now I am not discrediting those relationships that do work out but come on! If you have a slight desire to slap that girl and then ask her if she knows his last name I have a feeling we would get along just great. And you are right recently I have been studying types of love and dating and did you know it takes around 3 months for those rose-colored glasses to fade; suddenly your realizing that’s why you get really annoyed with roommates!  That’s because till then we are seeing what we want to see and LOVE IS BLIND but it doesn't have to be you can actively follow your heart in a relationship without losing your mind. So I present to you a way that you can start accessing your dates and moving towards love and it all starts with the date. Now if your not Mormon its totally fine and doesn't matter because although the principals discussed are special to us they are qualities all woman want. So first a date should be planned, paid for, and paired off which these go along with the ideal husband that presides, provides, and protects. First a date should be planned by this he is showing you that he can make plans and then follow through with them; and who doesn't want a husband who makes plans then knows the measures necessary to execute them(valentine's day?)? Next it should be paid-for which translates to a husband who can provide! And men we are not asking you to fly us to Paris but this means your creative like what girl doesn't want to go couch sledding? This is him showing you that he can provide fun and on a budget, a man doesn't need to be rich it is all a matter of what he does with what money he does have! And lastly it should be paired off and your probably wondering how does paired off go with protect and that is that both of these show a level of commitment. When they make the effort to be just with you they take on the responsibility to take care of you and woman your probably thinking that this is the 21st century and I can protect myself but why would you want to its so much hotter when a man does it! So whether you are single, deeply in love after the 1st date or seriously dating keep in mind that a man is a lot more than just fun and cute as he should be!
                                       XOXO Honey Bee's and Sweet Dreams